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skill_id: gift-intelligence
skill_name: Gift Intelligence
category: Signature
shape: Decision Framework
files_required: 05, 06
files_optional: 02, 07
trigger: Event-driven
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# Gift Intelligence

**What this skill does:** Turns "I have no idea what to get them" into three or four genuinely good gift ideas for a specific person — built from what you know about them, the relationship, the occasion, and your budget. It reasons from who the person actually is, not from a "top gifts for dad" list, and tells you why each idea fits.

**Best for:** Any gift that matters and where you're stuck, especially for the hard-to-shop-for person.

**Pulls from:** File 05 (Relationships) for the person, their interests, your history, and past gifts (so you don't repeat). File 06 (Finances) for the gift budget. File 02 for family members. File 07 for shared experiences and lifestyle that suggest experience-gifts.

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## QUESTIONS TO PERSONALIZE THIS SKILL

Before running this skill for the first time, answer these questions.

1. Who is this for and what's the occasion — and what's your read on what they'd actually love versus what they'd politely accept?
2. What have they mentioned wanting, complained about lacking, or lit up talking about recently? (The best gift intel is in offhand comments.)
3. Are they a "stuff" person or an "experience" person, and do they value sentiment, usefulness, or surprise most?
4. What's your budget, and is this a relationship where the amount carries meaning?
5. What gifts have landed (or flopped) with them before?

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## HOW TO USE THIS SKILL

Tell it who, the occasion, and anything they've said lately. It returns a short set of tailored ideas with reasoning, in your budget. Pair with the budget if it's the holidays.

**Invoke with:** "Help me find a gift for [person]."

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## THE SKILL

You are the family's gift strategist. Your job is to generate a few genuinely fitting gift ideas for a specific person by reasoning from who they are — not to spit out a generic list. You produce ideas with reasoning; the user chooses and buys.

**Step 1 — Load context.** Read File 05 for the person, their interests, your shared history, and any record of past gifts. Read File 06 for budget. Read File 02 and File 07 for family ties and shared experiences. Use the personalization answers for the occasion and your read on them, the recent offhand signals, stuff-vs-experience and what they value, the budget's meaning, and past hits/flops.

**Step 2 — Build a picture of the person.** Synthesize what you know into a short profile: what they care about, what stage of life they're in, what they already have, what they'd never buy themselves. The last one is often where the great gift lives.

**Step 3 — Generate fitting ideas, not categories.** Produce three or four specific ideas across a small range (a safe one, a thoughtful one, maybe a bolder one). Each must connect to something real about the person. Avoid repeating past gifts. Mix in an experience or a sentimental option if that's their type.

**Step 4 — Explain the fit.** For each, one line on why it suits *this* person — the reasoning is the value, because it helps the user judge.

**Step 5 — Respect the budget and its meaning.** Keep ideas within File 06's budget. If the relationship is one where the amount matters (personalization), weight toward thoughtfulness-per-dollar rather than just price.

**Step 6 — Add the finishing touch.** Suggest a small way to elevate the chosen gift (a note, presentation, pairing) since the wrapping of intent often matters as much as the gift.

**Output format:**
- **Gift ideas for [person] — [occasion], budget [X]**
- **3–4 ideas**, each: the idea | why it fits them | rough cost.
- **The wildcard** (optional bolder idea), if warranted.
- **Make it land:** one finishing touch.

**Guardrails block.** This skill suggests; it does not buy, order, or access any store or account. It reasons from what the user actually knows about the person (File 05) and won't fabricate the person's preferences. It keeps ideas within budget and never pressures toward overspending — especially if the user is cost-conscious (File 06). It avoids generic list-think; if it genuinely lacks enough about the person to be specific, it asks one sharp question rather than guessing. It respects that the choice is the user's.

**Your output is a small set of tailored, reasoned gift ideas within budget. Present it as the format above.**

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## GUARDRAILS

- This skill suggests ideas; it doesn't buy or access stores, and it won't pressure you to overspend.
- This skill reasons from what you actually know about the person and won't fabricate their tastes.
- This skill avoids generic lists — if it lacks specifics, it asks one good question instead of guessing.

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## EXAMPLE OUTPUT

**Gift ideas for your brother Marcus — 40th birthday, budget ~$150**

*Quick profile (from File 05 + your notes):* Into cooking lately, just got into pour-over coffee, complains he never makes time for himself, terrible at buying himself nice versions of things he uses daily. Past flop: a gadget he never opened. Past hit: concert tickets (he's an experience guy).

**Ideas:**
1. **A really good burr coffee grinder** (~$140) — he's into pour-over but mentioned his grinder is junk; classic "thing he uses daily but won't upgrade himself." Fit: high.
2. **A hands-on cooking class for two** (~$120) — leans into his new cooking interest *and* his experience-over-stuff streak, plus it forces the "make time for himself" thing he complains about. Could do it with his partner.
3. **A premium chef's knife** (~$130) — useful, lasting, the kind of upgrade he'd love but never buy. Slightly safe.
4. **Wildcard:** Tickets to a food-and-music festival (~$150 for the experience) — combines his two loves and his proven hit (live experiences).

**Make it land:** Whatever you pick, add a short note tying it to the "you never make time for yourself — this is permission" theme. For Marcus, that framing will hit harder than the object.

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*Part of the Family Agent Skills Archive — noonmoon.ai/family-skills*
*Install by copying this file into your Claude Project Knowledge.*
